Confessions/Vent Wednesday

jodyk23 · April 2010

Anything you need to get off your chest?

HiggyFan42 · April 2010

My DH is seriously annoying me lately. I'm not really sure why either. He just is. Ugh.

brobin01 · April 2010

I confess that last night after I got out of the shower, as I was looking for my regular deodorant, I came across what I thought was a “spray” deodorant. Well, after spraying under each arm, it felt a little weird under my arms. So, I turned on the bedroom light and looked at the can and it was a “feminine deodorant”! You know, the one for the little misses below..lol! Damian laughed so hard, that he fell out of the bed! LOL I wonder where the heck this spray feminine deodorant came from? Must have been part of a gift basket or something I received a while ago. LOL

Knottie1435582995 · April 2010

I'm irritated with my guests who found it unnecessary to RSVP on time (40 invites are floating out there). But, I find it infuriating that after e-mails and telephone calls most of them are also finding it unnecessary to call/e-mail me back.

I'm so pissed about it that I threw the list at my sister (MOH) and told her to deal with it because I'm too busy to do it right now. I feel bad, because it's not her fault and I probably was raging a bit when I passed the buck to her. I'll have to apologize when I talk to her next. I have half a mind to just give my vendors my final list and if any of these people show up, tell them to leave. RARRR

brobin01 · April 2010

damn melhunny! I feel your pain, but honestly, that's what I am doing! I am not about to chase people down so that I can add people to my list to pay for! to hell with it. If the aren't respectful enough to send in the damn RSVP, then they can get turned away from the reception respectfully and given the option to come back AFTER dinner to party! Good Luck girl!

[Deleted User] · April 2010

I'm on TK at work? hehe

I am honestly so busy with everything going on at home that I don't know how I'm going to get it all done! I've got the wedding, trying to buy this house, and keeping us afloat hygiene and finance-wise!

I've also got a bunch of freelance and volunteer stuff going on, and possibly will be planning a move here in the next few weeks!

I missed work on Monday with the flu, but I wish I could take another day just to get it all done!

boogerbearoriginal · April 2010

I cannot wait for this dumbass wedding to be over and be on our honeymoon away from people. Got an email last night from FMIL that FI's cousin called her that evening to ask whether her daughter was invited, FMIL said its kid-free. She said, well can daughter come because we don't have anyone to babysit.

GAH! NO - first of all, I turned in my final head count already. But more than that, I have family who aren't coming because of babysitting issues, off the top of my head I thought of SEVEN other people who had kids. I just replied that its not fair to make an exception for her when there's other people who have the same problem. I am probably going to be 'the bitch' now but I don't f-ing care.

And explain to me why she waited until a week and a half before the wedding to ask about this. In the last 2 months it never crossed her mind? This is the same cousin who basically called FI fat last summer, saying something about not needing any more cookies. I hate people.

stebbe81 · April 2010

Brandi: Too funny!!

Melhunny: I feel your pain only 3 of the people on my FI's side have RSVPed so far.

My mom is driving me crazy over the most ridiculous details for the wedding.

My sister my MOH called me the other day and told me that she is having the dress re-worked because a-line just doesn't really work for her. She said it makes her look pregnant. I wanted to tell her maybe you look bad in because you got it TWO SIZES too small!

Also I just don't get why vendors choose not to email me back. It's one month before the wedding of course I have questions.

Sue-n-Kevin · April 2010

OMG Brandi, your story is hilarious! As long as you didn't spray the underarm deodorant on your private parts, I guess you are safe.

My vent is not enough convenience stores, drug stores, or gas stations sell Pepsi Max. When I went through menopause, I lost my taste for coffee due to the hot flashes, but I need my caffeine. Pepsi Max didn't bother me like coffee.

If I don't go to Kroger and buy a 12 pack, I'm scrambling trying to find it at quick stop locations.

Confession: I really MUST stop myself from doing so much wedding related DIY so far in advance. Seriously.

thecatsfancy · April 2010

I confess that I have Brandi's RSVP sitting on my counter...and I look at it every single day, but I don't sent it. Why you ask? Because I am an albino "people"...and I'm messing with her. But she knows I mean it as a joke, not for serious.

I confess that I truly DO.NOT.CARE. at work anymore. If they fire me, so what? I am probably going to quit in a few months anyway because an hour drive is just too darn far for how little I'm making.

I confess that I feel like I'm breaking dress code at work. There is a no denim rule...and my new dress pants are kind of a dress denim (which are nicer/dressier than half the things other people wear!!).

culbycheese · April 2010

I confess that I hope my uncle's new creepy stepson doesn't come to our wedding. I only invited him so my brand new "aunt" doesn't have a fit. "Aunt" is in quotes because they got married a year ago, and none of us are 2. He hasn't RSVP'd yet and the deadline was the 17th, but neither did she & my uncle so I have to call to follow up.

I also confess that if said "aunt" does what she always does and tries to make everything about her, I will go bridezilla. At my bridal shower, she b#tched because there were "How well do you know" questions about my childhood and how should she know because she wasn't around then, and when I was opening gifts she wanted to come up and open with me because it was "going too slow."

I confess that 16 days away and I'm kind of MEH. about the wedding. I'm looking forward to FI becoming my husband and starting a new life together, but I could really care less about the wedding. I'm very concerned about drama because my grandma has been really cranky since my grandpa passed away last fall, and none of her kids are getting along with her or each other. Not to mention my mopey step-sister, attention w#ore aunt, kids in the BP prone to melt-downs, etc. Why didn't we elope????????

LISA R · April 2010

To the Fu*@ Face that keyed my car I hope you rot in hell. People are so disgusting. Just came from the library and I'm putting Brooklyn in her stroller I see this nice 5 inch key mark under the passenger window.

DanielleJoe09 · April 2010

Well I got quite a shocker lastnight. My sister (which is my MOH) tells
me that I am going to be an Aunt again. WOW....we have just under 6 months til the wedding. ....I cant believe she would do this to me...

To make matters worse she knows that I have issues getting pregnant, so it hits a soft spot....I'm soo hurt and crushed by this. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I should be excited for her....but I'm not....I'm disgusted.... *sighs*

shadow0304 · April 2010

WR vent is that I am done with my invites finally, but could've used help from FI assembling, putting stamps on, etc. All I got was "I have to study for my final!" (last minute) and then critiquing me licking the envelopes saying I'll die like the Seinfeld episode. Gr.

NWR vent is I hate construction on Telegraph right now!! Was the road really that bad that you have to dig it up and repave? I tried Middlebelt yesterday and that was a bad move and I was 30 mins late to work.

Gwenwhyfare · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddings.com/Sites/Weddings/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_confessionsvent-wednesday-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:8ef00b69-9f66-4ef1-b58f-5f158417326cPost:1d421adc-c296-4a1f-b1cb-1b61251e74ad">Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]To the Fu*@ Face that keyed my car I hope you rot in hell. People are so disgusting. Just came from the library and I'm putting Brooklyn in her stroller I see this nice 5 inch key mark under the passenger window.
Posted by LISA R[/QUOTE]

Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear about this! Are you sure it's a key mark? I thought I had one but my FI was able to buff it out with his detailing wheel. I can ask him what he used and let you know.

brobin01 · April 2010

Taryn sucks! J/k - LOL!!! I think you enjoy the torture I am feeling with holding the rsvp hostage! LOL

Erin- I have had so much drama with this kid/rsvp shi% people are rude and terrible.

Lisa - soooo sorry! people suck!

sue - ouch! that would be painful!

Danielle - I am so sorry you are feeling that way. Not judgin you at all, I totaly understand as a women and a bride why you feel this way.

ejay · April 2010

I'm irritated beyond belief that despite our initial guest list being finished in January, we ended up still adding more people right before the invites went out a few weeks ago... and still to this day, as I sit here with no extra invitations, I am still getting phone calls and messages asking for people to be invited to the wedding. It's so hard to say no, but I keep telling everyone, well I'm out of invitations... and the excuses and reasoning I hear behind why people need to be invited is just getting old. And the people that are asking for more people to be invited are like "oh I will just give you my invitation, and you can recycle it." Well do you have two envelopes, do you have a stamp and a 17 cent stamp, do you have the $60 pp I need to cover them to come to our wedding?!?" UGH! It's a holiday weekend people, go do something and leave my wedding alone!

thecatsfancy · April 2010

You know I'm coming, my love...it's just a matter of WHO'S coming with me.

Bwahaha.

(love you)

brobin01 · April 2010

P.S. I cried the other day for 2 hours due to RSVP drama! People are rude and crazy ass hell when it comes to weddings. So much has pissed me off and I have just been sparing you "knotties" of the drama I have gone through. I cannot tell you how many emails, phone calls, and text mesages I have received regarding peoples kids and people mad @ me who is NOT invited. Long lost relatives that I don't even talk to! I can't wait for this ish to be OVERRRRR! I know that the day is going to be GREAT but PEOPLE REALLY SUCK!

Not to mention FI's family - please tell me WHY they know they are coming FORSURE, but havn't sent in the RSVP? I mean seriously,it has a stamp on it. Write in your GOTDAM% name, choose your fu$king cake choice and drop it in a effin mailbox!! I have final info to get to my dam% vendors people!

thecatsfancy · April 2010

Awww hell. Now I feel bad. I will send it tonight, Bran.

boogerbearoriginal · April 2010

OMG Brandi - I feel like this is just a drop in the bucket compared to what I could've experienced so in a way I'm actually relieved its only one person. But seriously, she waited until now?

melhunny - RSVPs have been the worst part of wedding planning by far.

Lisa - that majorly stinks, hopefully you can get it buffed out like pp suggested.

Danielle - it sounds like you're feeling pretty unhappy about your sister's news and I'm sorry. Just try to remember, she's not doing this to hurt you. I hope you can find happiness for the new life coming into the world and I wish you the best in your plans of being a parent. ::Hugs::

brobin01 · April 2010

Noooo!! Taryn, I know you are coming! You are a knottie, it's FINE. you know the rules and I KNOW you!!
I am talking about dumb FI a$$ FAMILY! I don't know all of his out of town fam, I need them to get me their info asap!

brobin01 · April 2010

Ditto what BoogerBear said regarding - Danielle

brobin01 · April 2010

Culby - I don't know why - but I CTFU, when I read this:
"I confess that I hope my uncle's new creepy stepson doesn't come to our wedding."

The word creepy make me LOL!

Melgor78 · April 2010

I confess that I wish the wedding would just get here. I'm enjoying the planning but it just seems so far away and that our life is on hold until this day. But I don't want the summer to go by too quick, I hate winter so I want the summer to last.

I'm also tried of hearing ppl complain about the same things over and over. Fine you told me, I don't need to hear it every time I talk to you.

Knottie1435582995 · April 2010

Brandi: ::sigh:: I feel your pain. I've had some of the most ridiculous stuff happen. Family members we KNOW are coming won't send their sh%t in -- I need to know what you're eating!!! Family members have added additional people to their RSVP that were never invited (and it was CLEAR who was invited). Family members calling and asking why haven't you invited so-and-so? And then acting really rude and a%$holeish when I said I couldn't accomodate anyone else. I actually got yelled at by my great-uncle for about 15 minutes about how *I'M* being *SELFISH* by not inviting who *HE* wants invited. WTF?!?!?

boogerbearoriginal · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_confessionsvent-wednesday-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:8ef00b69-9f66-4ef1-b58f-5f158417326cPost:c95f04de-5b90-4d65-9180-2307e84adda7">Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess that I wish the wedding would just get here. I'm enjoying the planning but it just seems so far away and that our life is on hold until this day. But I don't want the summer to go by too quick, I hate winter so I want the summer to last. <strong>I'm also tried of hearing ppl complain about the same things over and over.</strong> Fine you told me, I don't need to hear it every time I talk to you.
Posted by Autumnbride2010[/QUOTE]

Are you referring to my incessant complaints about volcanic activity???. ::hangs head in shame::

LISA R · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_confessionsvent-wednesday-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:8ef00b69-9f66-4ef1-b58f-5f158417326cPost:e4475911-ddae-4d60-a6b1-450a45bb0a4e">Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday : Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear about this! Are you sure it's a key mark? I thought I had one but my FI was able to buff it out with his detailing wheel. I can ask him what he used and let you know.
Posted by Gwenwhyfare[/QUOTE]

Pisses me off but yes it is a key mark. I have a silver tone Jimmy that had no marks on it. You can see where they started keying it in a straight line. Austin said he can buff it out if it didn't the scratch didn't go as far down to the metal, which a part of it did. Soo soo mad.

Thanks Jen. Would love to hear what he used. Thanks ladies, I hope Austin can get it out.

Melgor78 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_confessionsvent-wednesday-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:8ef00b69-9f66-4ef1-b58f-5f158417326cPost:b910a7df-c68c-4fec-b296-a22d5f259d1d">Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/Vent Wednesday : Are you referring to my incessant complaints about volcanic activity???. ::hangs head in shame::
Posted by Booger+Bear[/QUOTE]

Nobody here, I'm referring to my mom. Every time she calls she complains about the same thing.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

boogerbearoriginal · April 2010

I figured you weren't - but just in case lol.

Gwenwhyfare · April 2010

I confess one co-worker in particular is driving me crazy. They'll ask for something and then question my response. Then I have to point out my response is the way it is because they asked for information on a completely different topic. Confusing, I know but I don't want to go into too many details. They're just driving me crazy plain and simple.

Work #2 is also really annoying me and making it seem like it's not worth it to have this second job. I've been trying to coordinate when I can get paid and the girl I work under keeps flaking out on me. I also hope that she brings back all of the supplies she took home. I'm not about to keep doing this if my credibility is being jeopardized for her stupidity and taking the stuff I need to do my job.

That felt good to get off my chest..

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