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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : Yeah, a couple years ago, some psycho bride from the Disney wedding boards told us her pumpkin stage coach cost more than most of our weddings'.  She also said we all had cookie cutter weddings (because, you know, Disney weddings aren't at all cookie cutter).  Obviously we made fun of her, and the next day she had hunted down one girl's real name and said  "I bet the dean of your medical school would be really happy to know that you spend all day on a wedding chat forum bla bla bla".  She's BSC herself, though.  So there's that. 
    Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

    Aaaand this is why I'm extremely conservative with my knot FB friends, and what info people have access to. In case anyone here had been wondering why I haven't participated in the big SB/FB friending. It's not personal, just overly-cautious.



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    [QUOTE]See? Reality                                                                       What people believe big gap. Star, some have been around for a long time.
    Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>maybe believe was the wrong word but all the BS about them stopped here so I stopped thinking about them. I don't doubt people talk off TK. I am friends with a lot of you on FB and talk to you all there. I guess I just don't see the big damn deal</div>

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : oh wow. This completely explains why KA would not answer anyone's questions about it either. But, I still really need to know who did it.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    Yeah I guess future got in touch with KA due to the mod position and asked if she could trace who did it, but KA told her TK just doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses. So she advised future to just stick to her local and the other board she mods (just engaged, I think) and to not address any threads on E or SB and to delete them if they pop up on the other boards.

    Personally, I think a better approach would have been to come over and say "I didn't do it," but whatever. Future apologiezd for the FB delete and said she was afraid of people trying to get to her personal info. I get it, I just wish she would have fought harder.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : Yeah I guess future got in touch with KA due to the mod position and asked if she could trace who did it, but KA told her TK just doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses. So she advised future to just stick to her local and the other board she mods (just engaged, I think) and to not address any threads on E or SB and to delete them if they pop up on the other boards. Personally, I think a better approach would have been to come over and say "I didn't do it," but whatever. Future apologiezd for the FB delete and said she was afraid of people trying to get to her personal info. I get it, I just wish she would have fought harder.
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    None of that means she didn't do it.  We couldn't prove it was her beyond the IP address that traced to her tiny town in KS, and Knot Annie can't prove it is or isn't her because they don't have the technology, so Annie told her to just ignore it.  Doesn't make her innocent.
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  • CellesCelles member
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    edited October 2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : I posted on both for a while but I got tired of Amoro and her cronies jumping my shiit over completely innocuous posts for no reason. 
    Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

    To be fair, some of those completely innocuous posts contained passive-aggressive asides like "Am I allowed to post here?" 

    I never took sides in the board war and I defended you on E. (along with OWN) when you GBCK'd...  but if our new goal on SB is to be honest, then the honest truth is that I found those comments just as off-putting as Amoro did.  I just kept my mouth shut and fingers still out of the same reluctance to call out regs that J&K condemned in her Dear SB thread this morning. 

    The little digs that I still see 'round here (such as your "That's the kind of answer you'll get on E!" crack in the other thread) annoy the hell out of me.  They're no different and no better than E. regs coming to SB. to ask things like "Are you <u><strong>all </strong></u>happy now?"  Blanket generalizations do no one any favors and only perpetuate the illusion of a board war. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : Yeah I guess future got in touch with KA due to the mod position and asked if she could trace who did it, but KA told her TK just doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses. So she advised future to just stick to her local and the other board she mods (just engaged, I think) and to not address any threads on E or SB and to delete them if they pop up on the other boards. Personally, I think a better approach would have been to come over and say "I didn't do it," but whatever. Future apologiezd for the FB delete and said she was afraid of people trying to get to her personal info. I get it, I just wish she would have fought harder.
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>if she was really innocent than I feel REALLY REALLY badly for her because I mean.... shes like enemy #1 to any knottie that was hurt by the call-out site. thats too bad.</div>

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : Initially this place was a wasteland after the old SBers ditched the board for TN.  Then it became the "whiney brides" board which made it a fun board to visit and set whiney brats straight.  Some E regs noticed what was going on and started posting here more frequently.  To my knowledge, there was no organized migration, although I think some E regs think it was organized and that they were "not invited" or whatever.  I don't know anyone who was "invited."  It just kind of happened. 
    Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

    I agree with this entirely. Whatever individual reasons people have for posting exclusively on one board or another, however, are theirs.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : None of that means she didn't do it.  We couldn't prove it was her beyond the IP address that traced to her tiny town in KS, and Knot Annie can't prove it is or isn't her because they don't have the technology, so Annie told her to just ignore it.  Doesn't make her innocent.
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

    This is true too. Ugh I really hate this whole thing.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : None of that means she didn't do it.  We couldn't prove it was her beyond the IP address that traced to her tiny town in KS, and Knot Annie can't prove it is or isn't her because they don't have the technology, so Annie told her to just ignore it.  Doesn't make her innocent.
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

    <div>I have a question about this...was the IP address actually traced back to the town she lived in?  It's been awhile since that post, but I thought someone said it was traced back to 90 miles from where she lived.  I could be way off on that one, but I forget the details of it now.  </div>
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  • Could it possibly be true that The Knot doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses?  That sounds like b.s. to me, but maybe it's true.   Tech-savvy women - could it be true?
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  • That's fair, Celles, and it definitely means a lot more coming from you than from some of the others, because you were not a wretched hosebeast to me during the whole thing.  I regret saying "can I post here," but I'm 99% certain she would have jumped my shiit in that thread either way even though I was just trying to be nice. 

    But I won't take back the part about "that's the answer you'll get on E" because it is.  "Don't ask" etc, is the standard party line over there whenever any newb asks what the KPS callout or the boardwar was all about. 
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    [QUOTE]Could it possibly be true that The Knot doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses?  That sounds like b.s. to me, but maybe it's true.   Tech-savvy women - could it be true?
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    Good question.  It does seem like basic technology for anyone who runs a message board, especially an established enterpise like The Knot.
  • OWN, that's what Annie has always said.  That's why they don't/can't ban IP addresses.  If you get banned, you can just make a new name and come right back because they can't do anything with IP addresses.
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  • AnysunriseAnysunrise member
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    edited October 2010
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    [QUOTE]Could it possibly be true that The Knot doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses?  That sounds like b.s. to me, but maybe it's true.   Tech-savvy women - could it be true?
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    I can't trace them, but I can see them and then use a seperate site to trace them on the forums I run, and they're just one of the random free hosting sites. So I'm skeptical. But I guess with so many members it might just not be worth it.
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    [QUOTE]Could it possibly be true that The Knot doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses?  That sounds like b.s. to me, but maybe it's true.   Tech-savvy women - could it be true?
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    It's B.S. 

    The forum software may not track IP addresses, but I'm absolutely 100% positive that the data exists even if it isn't easily accessible to someone like KA.  It's not so much a matter of can't but won't.  TK probably doesn't think it's worth a DBA's time to investigate message board drama.  (Given how buggy everything else has been, they're probably right!)
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    [QUOTE]Could it possibly be true that The Knot doesn't have the technology to trace IP addresses?  That sounds like b.s. to me, but maybe it's true.   Tech-savvy women - could it be true?
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    Well I do know many people have IP addresses that are routed through places they do not live or work. That fact makes it really hard to track people down.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : None of that means she didn't do it.  We couldn't prove it was her beyond the IP address that traced to her tiny town in KS, and Knot Annie can't prove it is or isn't her because they don't have the technology, so Annie told her to just ignore it.  Doesn't make her innocent.
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

    I'm not saying she's innocent, because I'm not 100% convinced myself, I was just giving what info I had based on what she told me. I haven't heard anything out of her since then, so I can't say she did it or not. I'd like to believe not, but I'm a skeptic.
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    [QUOTE]The Knot is a deep ocean of secrets. A deep. Deep. Deep. Deeeeeep. DEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPP ocean.
    Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

    like the specific ocean?
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  • I would guess its a TK line they give to avoid having to trace IPs. Tracing one would open a HUGE HUGE door and then there could be legal issues... they are better off not bothering

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  • In light of Dani's post, I'm not going to argue the point, MFJ.  I think I took the comment a little too personally because I had just explained the future-mrs drama in another thread (on E., no less!) and was all "lolwut?"

    Personally, I think it's better to explain it succintly and move on.  If you treat it like some dark secret in our collective past, then it takes on a significance it doesn't deserve.  It also draws a very distinct line between those of us who were around at the time (and are "allowed" to know about it) and those of us who weren't. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : That's only because we were/are trying to clear the air and stop posts where it gets all dredged up again and feelings get butthurt all over again.  It's best to not drag it all up again every time a newb comes in all confused, in my opinion.  Maybe that's the wrong way to look at it, but since everyone has a different perspective of what happened, any story told is going to biased in one way or another.
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

    Most days I feel this way because you are right, it gets really tough to explain every.single.time. Plus, I know we all feel every version is different. I am glad this thread came out today. I feel some solidarity between the boards in that we are all glad to finally have threads that are halfway interesting.
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    [QUOTE]Personally, I think it's better to explain it succintly and move on.  If you treat it like some dark secret in our collective past, then it takes on a significance it doesn't deserve.  It also draws a very distinct line between those of us who were around at the time (and are "allowed" to know about it) and those of us who weren't. 
    Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

    That's a very good point.
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  • I KNOW THEY DO. But that's probably because I kind of love them. They're interesting to me, and I like to find out who they are.


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    [QUOTE]"Not a wretched hosebeast" may just replace "I wish they made boys like you" as the nicest thing anyone has ever said about me.  ;)
    Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

    <3  I can only presume the context of this conversation you speak of was totally awesome.

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    [QUOTE]I, for one, have nothing against Heel's dog. Just to be clear. IT WASNT ME.
    Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

    Whatever Fishy.  Possum traced your IP address and she knows you're the only Fargoan (Fargoan?  Fargot?  I have no idea).  Possum may eat her own poo but she's no dummy. 
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    [QUOTE]You know what the biggest letdown story was of knot lore? Scooby and the pot roast.
    Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

    I like to think that's what makes it funny. Overplayed to the max? Yes. Which is why it is more funny.
  • crfischecrfische member
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    edited October 2010
    THAT IS THE LAST TIME I EMAIL WITH POSSUM. THE LAST TIME, I TELL YOU.

    But yeah, that was the thing. Do you think that IF the KPSCO's were traced to a computer in Fargo, ND that people would be all, NO WAY IT WASNT FISHY!

    Um, yeah. They would. And I'd be trying to pin it on AATB with every fiber of my being.

    Hypothetically.
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