We are not having a ringbearer or flower girl in our wedding. None of our friends or family members have young daughters and my fiance and I don't feel close enough to any families with young sons so we opted not to have either.
As more family members find this out, they seem shocked that we don't have a flower girl (surprisingly the lack of ring bearer isn't an issue). How do I handle this when I'm fed up with people asking why and telling me on what I'm missing out on by not having one?