Do I give a gift to the gift bearers, readers, ushers, etc.? We got gifts for the priest, parents, RB, GM, BM but budgetwise we didn't think of those in the ceremony but not in the wedding party. Am I supposed to get them gifts? I also got gifts for the family friend throwing my shower. Some of them aren't coming to the rehearsal (by their choice) and just going to wing it. Suggestions for gifts?