So I have been engaged for a little over two weeks. We have booked our reception and ceremony sites (same place) and are moving along nicely (the wedding is in less than a year).
My issue is that EVERYONE has to put in their two cents about everything! How do you all deal with this? I am so sick of hearing "oh you should do this" or "really? you want to do that?" It's OUR wedding! I didn't do any of that for anyone else's weddings, even when I was in them! Why do they think they have a right to tell me how to handle my day? I understand most of it is well intentioned and I appreciate the help to a point but when I am telling people about ideas I have that mean something to my fiance and I and they shut them down because they wouldn't do them it really hurts my feelings... they are not getting married, we are!
it's gotten to a point that I am just not having any fun with this... what should i do? this is supposed to be one of the happiest times of my life!
thanks for letting me vent