Invites for no plus 1

harjess · December 2011

We are only inviting our very close friends and family. yes we will be inviting married couples and couples we actually know. But, we are not doing the plus one. Hope that makes sense, how would we word this or send out invites?

msuprincess04 · December 2011

As I understand it, the invitation is only for the names listed on the envelope. So, if just one person than you'd address it to "Ms. Julie Smith" or to a couple "Mr. and Mrs. Bob and Julie Smith" If they RSVP for more than one, than a simple telephone call would let them know that you are having a small wedding and the invitation addressed to the invitee only.

harjess · December 2011

Wonderful thanks...

MyNameIsNot · December 2011

If you aren't inviting them to bring a date, you just put their name on the invitation. If they are in a relationship, put both names.

I will point out that it is rude to excluse any significant others, regardless of whether they are married or you know them. If it's a relationship, you have to invite both. If the person is truly single, you do not have to invite them to bring a date.

harjess · December 2011

Well that is what I needed to know, if they are in a relationship we will invite but if not then we won't. We are only inviting 50 people.

KH 2012 · December 2011

It may be more work but this is what we are doing:

The favor of a reply is requested by February 18, 2012

M___________________________________

____ seats have been reserved in your honor

[ ] Yes. ___ of ___ Joyfully Accept

[ ] No. We regretfully decline

i saw something liek this on another board and decided to do it because we are not inviting children and plus ones depends on the situtaion.

Goodluck

harjess · December 2011

This is awesome! I will use this.

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_invites-plus-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:a9c73106-2a38-4e3c-b113-7df284a19a06Post:2b7e9a04-5393-4645-80e3-f6478a6bfbb6">Re: Invites for no plus 1</a>:
[QUOTE]It may be more work but this is what we are doing: The favor of a reply is requested by February 18, 2012 M___________________________________ ____ seats have been reserved in your honor [ ] Yes. ___ of ___ Joyfully Accept [ ] No. We regretfully decline i saw something liek this on another board and decided to do it because we are not inviting children and plus ones depends on the situtaion. Goodluck
Posted by KH 2012[/QUOTE]

supertoaster82 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_invites-plus-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:a9c73106-2a38-4e3c-b113-7df284a19a06Post:2b7e9a04-5393-4645-80e3-f6478a6bfbb6">Re: Invites for no plus 1</a>:
[QUOTE]It may be more work but this is what we are doing: The favor of a reply is requested by February 18, 2012 M___________________________________ ____ seats have been reserved in your honor [ ] Yes. ___ of ___ Joyfully Accept [ ] No. We regretfully decline i saw something liek this on another board and decided to do it because we are not inviting children and plus ones depends on the situtaion. Goodluck
Posted by KH 2012[/QUOTE]<div>
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