October 2012 Weddings

a check and uncheck.

First the good news, Since Easter was today I managed to find my flower girl dress super cheap this week..I am very excited about that! Now the bad, My father bought my dress when our date was back in 2010 when I was also a size 4 my father passed away in December of 2010 and the dress is one of the only ways he can really "walk" me down the aisle. I tried my dress on last night thinking I still had a chance, and it won't zip. The fabric is still at least 9 inches apart and there's no way the zipper will reach. Since losing him I've gained about 50 pounds from the stress, and I am having trouble taking it off. I don't want to risk not being able to fit into it in 6 months or if I get a new one, not being able to order it in time. I'm afraid it's too far to let out since there's so much detail in the bodice. I found one at Davids that I love, but it's not the same. I even cut a portion of the inner fabric on my dress so it could be buried with him, but the weight issue is scaring me. I don't want to lose out on a beautiful dress that was bought for me, and I don't want wait until last minute to decide if a new one is the right thing. Vent over..

Re: a check and uncheck.

  • Could  you have it changed to a corset back?  
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  • I'm not sure. Finding a seamstress is my main check this week. I think it would make a gorgeous corset back. I know that my dad wouldn't be mad if I got a new one, but this one holds more sentimental value than anything.
  • I am so sorry for the lose of your dad. I can see why you want to wear that dress for the memory of your dad and to have him there with you.  I agree with pp see if you can have it changed to a corset back.  This way it will fit you now and if you lose weight. 
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  • I agree with PPs... You could at least carry a piece of it with you if it can't. I am so sorry for your loss and will be crossing my fingers the the seamstress will be able to make it perfect for you!
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad.  I agree with everyone else, with adding a corset back, or even a panel to clip in would be an easier route if the seamstress can not do the corset.

    Good luck and keep us posted.
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  • The corset back for sure... They can add a piece of fabric to voer your skin under thelace up and it will fit now or later
  • I hope you guys are right, I think I may have found a seamstress, I'm emailing her right now and explaining my situation!
  • PattySmith101PattySmith101 member
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    edited April 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_a-check-and-uncheck?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:c8edf3d5-9433-45b4-854c-d513fe38490fPost:caa61305-e027-4482-a718-1bcf4c5a88de">Re: a check and uncheck.</a>:
    [QUOTE]I hope you guys are right, I think I may have found a seamstress, I'm emailing her right now and explaining my situation!
    Posted by kml21636[/QUOTE]


    i agree w/ pp ...i think the corset is the way to go! good luck with the seamstress! i hope everything works out they way you want it to! 

    another way to have your dad walk you down the aisle...put charm frames with his picture in them. i am putting a charm/frame of my mom on my flowers as a private way for me to honor my mom who passed w/o doing the memorial candle/picture thing which would probally upset my dad if he saw it!
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  • kml21636kml21636 member
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    edited April 2012
    In Response to Re:a check and uncheck.:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: a check and uncheck.:I hope you guys are right, I think I may have found a seamstress, I'm emailing her right now and explaining my situation!Posted by kml21636i agree w/ pp ...i think the corset is the way to go! good luck with the seamstress! i hope everything works out they way you want it to!nbsp; another way to have your dad walk you down the aisle...put charm frames with his picture in them. i am putting a charm/frame of my mom on my flowers as a private way for me to honor my mom who passed w/o doing the memorial candle/picture thing which would probally upset my dad if he saw it! Posted by PattySmith101[/QUOTE]

    Patty I love those shoes!!! What a cute and sentimental idea!

    Thanks everyone for the ideas!
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