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OP also needs to remember that she must include all SO's of invited guests. I think some couples see cutting boyfriends/girlfriends as an easy way to manage their guest list, but it's not. It's just … (View Post)

Your choices are to cut your guest list or find a new venue. Suck it up, pick one, and do it. (View Post)

Ditto HGF. Put it in a letter. That way you can revise it as necessary so it says exactly what you want to say, and you won't get upset or flustered when she tries to argue with you. You don't need t… (View Post)

I don't see why you'd feel ambushed. You weren't. Being ambushed would be when they all confront you at once about something, like spending a lot of money on a gift that you hadn't planned on. So I'm… (View Post)

I think you'd be fine to have something in the spring. But, unless you live where it gets very cold in October, there's a lot to be said for a fall bonfire/hayride type thing, which would make a pret… (View Post)