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  • Re: How about compassion first before cutting her out?

    downtondivadowntondiva
    April 2024
    Ever stop to ask her how she's doing and if she needs anything? Or to think that maybe she's overwhelmed or depressed and your going on and on about how wonderful your life as a mother is might be re… (View Post)
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  • Re: "I don't think a bunch of meet-ups are necessary."

    downtondivadowntondiva
    April 2024
    Don't tell her you didn't like the meet-ups for her wedding - no point in potentially hurting her feelings after the fact. Just keep (politely) telling her that you don't think numerous meet-ups are … (View Post)
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  • Re: Figure out how to be supportive without weighing in on specifics about him.

    downtondivadowntondiva
    March 2024
    There's not much you can do here but be a sympathetic listener. If you must say anything, keep it to commenting on the situation, and not on B's husband as a person. There's a big difference between … (View Post)
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  • Re: OMG, do not look up his number.

    downtondivadowntondiva
    March 2024
    No. No. No. This man is reliant on the services of the food pantry, and it's not fair to make him feel like he can't come back because he doesn't reciprocate your interest or because you hang out and… (View Post)
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  • Re: It's OK to say, "I don't want to talk about it."

    downtondivadowntondiva
    March 2024
    You do not owe your coworkers an in-depth explanation of anything in your personal life. If they offer condolences when your mother dies, thank them without further commentary. If they ask a lot of q… (View Post)
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