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That is really unfortunate and rude to not follow up with each guest to let them know that plans changed. I would certainly follow up with your friend. I would come from an approach of concern. "… (View Post)

I didn't have any dancing, cake cutting, tosses or 'stuff' at my reception. Some people left right after dessert was finished and others stayed until 11pm. We had a very simple dinner reception. No o… (View Post)

When my sister got married, they had a gift opening and the value of cash/checks was read out. It was only immediate family but it left a sour taste in my family's mouth. I didn't have one and was ha… (View Post)

I didn't get the idea either but it kept the peace with my MIL. I knew very few of the people she invited so it really was a meet the newlyweds. It stopped her commenting on not getting to invite he… (View Post)

I haven't lost my Mom so I don't know how that would feel. Just looking at at the other components, no one should be expected to help with a wedding (planning or money). If someone offers, great. If … (View Post)