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  • Re: She's 11 and neglected, figure it out

    flantasticflantastic
    November 2025
    You're tired because you're spending the night fighting with everyone. Yes, you'll probably get worse sleep with her in your bed, but it'll be better sleep than the 2 AM nonsense … (View Post)
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  • Re: eye rolling so hard here

    flantasticflantastic
    November 2025
    One of the aftercare staff told me DS1 needed new shoes, after she had tied his shoes that day. Hilariously, the other two children’s shoes are pretty close to falling apart, but DS1’s are in great s… (View Post)
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  • Re: Oh F you, dude

    flantasticflantastic
    November 2025
    Oh lol no dude I don't do post-bedtime cleaning unless there is a real immediate need. Morning is my productive time anyway. I do almost all the cooking (and all the mental load of deciding what… (View Post)
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  • Re: Please have patience with her, teach her

    flantasticflantastic
    October 2025
    @VarunaTT My problem wasn't so much that she's considering contacting CPS, but that my initial read on her tone here is that she can't be bothered to do the work of teaching her - i.e.… (View Post)
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  • Re: Please have patience with her, teach her

    flantasticflantastic
    October 2025
    Oh my goodness. This is a sign that she is holding it together at school with all the energy she has, what with all the stressors she has. You thinking about turning her over to the state because you… (View Post)
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