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I sent DH an email yesterday, outlining our upcoming plans (cause he likes details on paper), and we're basically busy every weekend between now and Christmas. I'm most looking forward to a ski weekend away, but haven't decided yet if I want to bring the turdler along (I think it'll depend on whether or not I'm pregnant at that point as I won't want to ski hard if I am, so I might as well spend the days on and off the hill in green acres with her). Not holding my breath on a positive test, but I'm hopeful it's our time again.
I left my phone at home today, so I'm basically naked and not loving it, although my productivity is up slightly.
I honestly think you did great. When I found out about my MC, I went in and worked the few days between finding out and the D&C. I told the two ladies who worked in my cubicle farm. I was 12 weeks, and people knew I was expecting, so I personally didn't hide the loss from anyone (not to make them uncomfortable, but cause they'd find out eventually).
My office sent me flowers (which I appreciated), and was otherwise pretty business as usual. I'd say just follow her lead. If she wants to talk about it she will, but don't bring it up unless she does. I agree with PP about not overloading her with work right now (if you have any control over that), as I was pretty unproductive, and scattered for about a month - I still definitely got things done, but it was a lot more difficult.
I just got a random text (DH very rarely texts me at all) to let me know there was a $300 ish credit on his credit card (the one we don't share). His message started out with "So, something fairly odd..."
I suggested we spend it all on liquor at our upcoming Christmas parties. I've since not had a reply.
It's not letting me quote, but MKD, I started buying mat clothes at 9 weeks (I started with pants cause none of my jeans fit, but bought shirts between 11-13 weeks as well.
Gap/Old Navy were my go to spots for staples.
AFM, we had a pretty relaxed weekend. Did some tobogganing with the daredevil toddler, made numerous batches of egg nog, bought Christmas party dresses for both myself and the toddler, binge watched a bunch of The Punisher, and caught up on some sleep.