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Oh my goodness, no on so many levels.
So many things not right with this. I don't see how her shower a week after your wedding is a big deal or petty. If you can't make it, you say, "Thank you for the invite, but I will not be able to make it."
You should just bow out at this point for the bachelorette party due to the cost. Sounds like no one asked for a budget. Or you can say no to these "demands".
Just ask them one on one - go out to lunch or ask over the phone. I suggest one on one in case a friend has to say no and it doesn't get awkward.Report15
I had to stop commenting and posting there because whenever I tried to be the voice of reason I'd end up with as much negative karma as possible and comments about how rude I was being. Which is incredibly ironic, now that I think about it.
Yea, its like if you either don't agree with everyone or aren't 100 % sunshine farts than they take issue with you.
Bridesmaids have duties, gaps are okay, B-listing is fine because "it's your day!!!!!"
Thanks! That is how I have been feeling about Reddit lately (the wedding subreddits).