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I definitely agree with asking her. I came home from overseas to get married and went right back a few days later. Nobody offered me a bridal shower, but I would have declined if they did. As for alt… (View Post)

I had to do most of our wedding planning when DH was in the field but it's totally doable by yourself. The main thing I had to sort was what he was going to wear to the wedding - if he wanted to… (View Post)

Have you called the venue yet to ask how other people have chairs at their ceremony? That seems by far the easiest place to start. (View Post)

These two things don't really go together for me. I mean I get trying to have fun but I think dictating what other people wear is really crossing a line. If someone told me I could wear whatever… (View Post)

The only time an etiquette breach has really affected my relationship with the married couple was when they invited more people than they wanted to host and started un-inviting some of their guests t… (View Post)