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No. There is no polite way to say anything. Nobody is required to bring you a gift. It would be incredibly rude to act as if you are entitled to one. (View Post)

It's not tacky, but I get how it's annoying. It'll probably be hard for guests to go to both weddings, and are they going on a honeymoon or will they be waiting until after your wedding? (View Post)

Yes, it's nice to have help if it's offered, but it is not required. You ask people to be in your WP because you want them to know how important they are to you, not for their free labor. All the MO… (View Post)

I second the bolded. A party to celebrate the marriage AFTERWARDS would be nice. Anyone who would like to bring a gift can still do so, but it is not expected. (View Post)

AFAIK, there is no polite way to invite someone to a shower if they are not invited to the wedding. Word it however you would like, no matter how "cute" you try and make it it will be rude … (View Post)