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11/13/2014

Discussion by ktornst1 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Tomorrow is me and y bfs anniversay. It will be 3 years. I have been putting the pressure on him (though trying hard not too) to get married. I am ready to start our lives as husband and wife, with a house and kids. I have no idea if he will propose or not, he is really good at surprises and i think he would do it because…
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Reply by phira · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

@cu97tiger "Raise Your Glass" is on our must play list :D @eilis1228 We opted for Daft Punk's "Get Lucky." I wanted something classic, like something by Queen, but none of the songs we loved from them seemed like a good fit for the last song. And then we both thought it would be fun to use a Red Sox song, but he wanted…
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Reply by nicole4793 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Happy anniversary! For my FI and me, the more I hinted at proposals, the longer it took. When I stopped talking about it altogether (he has me pay bills from his checking account for him, so I saw the ring purchase... whoops!!), he finally did it. He finally wanted to do it, but it was all on his own without any gentle…
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Reply by labro · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Happy early anniversary! Don't worry about wedding planning. You aren't engaged yet. It's ok to start to plan by say - creating a general savings account...but seriously you DO NOT need to be thinking about it with any level of detail. Things will start to come together when you get engaged and have a budget and create a…
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Reply by eilis1228 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

@cu97tiger That's a great send-off song! Gets everyone going for one last hoorah. I think I'll put that on our list of potential songs.
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Reply by ktornst1 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Thanks everyone! I'm not in too much of a hurry. I really dont think 3 years is enough time were it feels like we should have been married a long time ago. I just worried that once the actual planning happens its going to be even more stressful because i keep changing certain things and when you actually plan you have to…
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Reply by Dignity100 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Congrats on your 3 year anniversary!! As others have alluded to; concentrate on your relationship as it is, don't worry about getting engaged, if it's meant to happen, it'll happen - no pressure needed.
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Reply by phira · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

One huge thing I learned from planning a wedding: none of the dreaming and planning and plotting I did before I was engaged meant anything. None of it really mattered. So many of my ideas were immediately nixed by our budget, or because we went to another family wedding that incorporated an idea I loved. Most of them were…
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Reply by phira · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

So, this is something that I know I struggled with, with my fiancé. What I'll recommend (once you're planning) is to just make a decision final, and don't revisit it. Like, once you pick the song for your first dance, you stop looking for first dance songs. Once you decide what kind of dress you want, stop looking at…
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Reply by Peaseblossom55 · November 2014 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Not Engaged Yet

Don't worry about when you will get engaged. Enjoy your relationship as it is now. I ruined too many events with my then BF thinking it would be the moment he proposed.

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