** Heads up to those that want to make their maiden name their middle name, you can't do it in some states (CA, NJ, NY, OH, PA, WA - http://www.missnowmrs.com/Blog/index.php/2010/07/maiden-to-middle-name-change.html), well at least not easily. When you get married you get a "freebie" name change, but otherwise you have to…