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1. Re: Processional for 2 guys

   

   Reply by chrmun · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   I'm curious about this, too. My original idea was that we would "just sort of get up there". This idea was not greeted with universal approval. I don't really dig the idea of one of us going first, because it sort of makes one of us "the lady", y'know? But I also don't really dig the idea of walking down together, because…

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   Discussion by davenport52803 · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   Ok we're trying to figure out how we are going to do the processional. We're a male couple, and unfortunatley we've never been to another gay male wedding, just one with two brides, so we're kind of confused how to do it. We're each having two attendents and two flower girls. We will have the flower girls walk down the…

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   Reply by davenport52803 · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   chrmun, thats kinda the idea im toying with too. having us each walk up a different aisle at the same time. I was just wondering if it would look alright. I know there are no rules and all, but just wanted to hear what others were doing or have done. I also dont really want to walk up together, or have one go before the…

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   Reply by 2dBride · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   NotFroofy and I walked together. However, I think having each of you come in a different way at the same time would be lovely!

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   Reply by chrmun · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   Another plus to having three sections is that it sort of gets rid of the concept of my side/your side and lets us mix up our people in the middle.

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   Reply by jayetheartist · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   FI and I are doing the one at a time thing, but instead of looking at it as a "this makes one of us the girl/guy" thing I think it's more of a special attention thing. The last bride or groom down the aisle gets what is traditionally the bride's "spotlight" position.

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   Reply by cwestra · December 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   I've been to queer weddings where the couple each walked in from different sides at the same time, with their parents. It was very nice, and worked well in their space (open field with the chairs arranged in a circle). Basically they came in the sides and then walked down the center aisle together at the end. Keep in mind…

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   Reply by MillBride2012 · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   My partner and I will walk down the aisle together. You should do whatever feels right to you though! There are no rules!

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   Reply by avigailandcharlie · November 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

   Two of my best friends are getting married and they are each walking down an aisle (two different ones) together, and then will come together at the front, and end their walk toward each other.Another idea is that a wedding can be looked at not as "someone been given away" but as two families joining together, so having…

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    Reply by TioTee · December 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Gay Weddings

    I don't know it anyone has suggested this, however, one idea that may work for you, and depending on the venue, is that you enter at the same time, but from separated parts of the venue, then join in the center, before heading toward whomever is officiating. In any case, it will be a beautiful occasion and everyone will…