So for those who know what was going on with a girl who was a bridesmaid there is an update. Sadly not a good one. For those who missed it, the post title is Rant...Sorry.... if you want to read what happened.
Anyway, today I have been getting calls and emails from vendors (the ones she knew I had booked). Since today was pretty busy for a while, I let the calls go to voicemail and just saw the emails a little while ago...
Apparently she decided to contact these vendors on my behalf stating that we would like our deposits back because we would no longer be needing their services. She said this to the church (which we are not paying a fee since FI is a member - but we planned on giving a donation to the church) / the reception hall / the DJ / the florist / and David's Bridal (asking if I could return my gown and accessories and if the bridesmaids would be able to return dresses).
I know it was her because I saw the original email she sent to the vendors she emailed and she said "I am X and I am contacting you on behalf of hlvonb..." and the ones that called me to discuss refunds with me said they were sorry to hear the news from X about no longer needing their services....
I emailed the ones that emailed me and luckily was able to contact the vendors that called me. I am hoping this is not going to cause issues later. I had to explain that it was a misunderstanding somewhere and that no the wedding was not called off and that we still need their services and to be assured that I will be the one contacting them if anything were to change....
Luckily, the ones I could talk to were nice about it. I am sure it was not fun for them to hear / handle either. I am just hoping the ones I had to email (since I don't have a phone number for them with me) will be just as nice about it....
I am so mad I want to scream......