I don't understand how some of ya'll sit here behind a computer or cell phone and are seriously talking down to people. Some of ya'll have been members since 2009 and come to the "Not Engaged Yet" discussion board just to tell people that they should be planning, or even think about wedding plans. Some of ya'll ar just about the rudest f****n people i've ever seen. Half of yall are already married and still talking s**t to people. You're married already! Go to "The Nest" stop tryna to rain on other people parade all the damn time. Then its some of yall who are just lonely as hell with a million cats living with you. None and i mean None of ya'll ever have anything nice to say to people who arent engaged yet. If people want to wait 3 to 8 years to get married, then thats on them, but dont try to make other people feel bad for wanting to pre plan, or have ideas. Everybody doesnt have a money tree in their back yard. Some of us have to actually work for their money, and the first thing ya'll say is "you dont know what can happen in (insert number here) years". Its just a bunch of negative ass people on this f****n website!