Ok so my FI has 2 nieces and 2 nephews, and I have 1 niece and 1 nephew. I am VERY close with my own niece/nephew and pretty close with three of his. But there is one of his nieces that I am not close to and she is 11. I feel that is too old for a flower girl, but my FI is very close with her. I would like to skip kids altogether so nobody feels left out, but I already "accidentally" told my FI's other 6 year old niece that she could be a flower girl
I don't want to have SIX kids in our bridal party, it's way too expensive, plus neither of us are HUGE fans of kids. (We don't even want any of our own.) So our wedding pictures after the ceremony will be more painful than enjoyable. Anyone have any advice about what to do? I just feel obligated now that I gave in to the 6 year old when she sweetly asked..HELP!