This is the 1st marriage for both of us. Many of my friends are to busy with work, children, my bestie is going through a divorce, my sister is older divorced and bitter,, my mother is like talking to a wall, i don't wanna bother people at work, I try really hard to keep it all in. I feel like I can't talk to any about it except for my fiance. Which is fine but, this supposed to be a happy time and I just feel sad that I can't share my excitement with any of my female friends because of their own individual situations. I know I'm older (39) but does that make it any different then 25 or 30? This is still my 1st and only wedding I plan on having. Can someone be happy for me. Jeezee.