I feel as if I am looked at as being the bad guy here, but that is only because you are thinking things that aren't true. First of all, none of my bridesmaids are going to be wearing heels so anything having to do with standing in heels for a long time is out of the problem. Second of all, I'm not "kicking her out" of my bridal party. Never in any post did I say this - and never would I do this. When she announced her news, she gave me the option of "kicking her out" and I refused.It would be nice if someone didn't put me into this defined box of a typical bride.