I'm having a budget wedding in NYC but I figure I get more advice on this board. I'm hiring a full service wedding planner because we live in Virginia but our wedding will be in NYC and plus we want a nice stress free wedding. Although we've talked over the phone and email dozens of time, next week, I'm heading up to NYC to meet her. I don't know what I should ask or what to expect for our first meeting. Any stories or advice would be much appreciated.