My partner and I have been together for 5 years and engaged for over 3. We both have put off even starting to plan a wedding due to the concerns we have about having a wedding in North Carolina. I was just curious if there's anyone here to share their experiences. To go along with out many concerns, Gay Marriages are not legal here in NC. Sometimes I feel like we should wait till it is or at least till we move, yet we have no plans to leave the state.
To those of you who are married or are planning a wedding in NC....what are some of your concerns or reactions that were surprisingly more delightful than you expected?