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  • Why do you keep making excuses not to get help? Things are not going to get better if you just sit around and wait. I bet there's at least one reg close enough to you who would drive you if you don't have a friend or relative to do so.
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  • MollyandDMollyandD member
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    edited February 2014
    I don't know you personally, but everything I've read from you makes me think you are in an abusive relationship. He blames you for problems, he's controlling, and he seems to expect you to be perfect. Now, he has managed to make you feel that being married to him is some sort of honor, and if you're super lucky, he will learn to love you like a wife. I just know that I would not be happy being with someone who didn't treat me like he felt thrilled to be with me. I don't want someone who needs to learn to have passion for me after we have been married for such a short time. I understand couples after being married 10+ years finding passion again, but that's not the case here. Also... he "sleep punched" you? How do you know he did it if you never woke up? I have "sleep elbowed" my sweetie in the stomach, so I'm not saying it's not possible. I just am wondering how you know that's what happened if you were sleeping.
  • Apparently my paragraphs don't separate when I use the iPad.
  • For the love of God, PLEASE do NOT bring a child into that kind of an environment!! Think of how you are feeling and have felt. Your child would feel even worse because he or she would not be able to understand any limitations of either of you. Every child deserves to be born into a loving and nurturing environment. Remember this next time the discussion comes up.
  • Don't worry. We are going to sort it out before we bring a child into this mess.
  • SammiNJonniSammiNJonni member
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    edited February 2014
    I hate that the knot no longer says where you are from. Teddy where are you? If you are anywhere near me I will drive you to therapy myself to ensure you get it. This relationship is toxic as it is now and I have a feeling it may never change. You need to get yourself help and possibly get out of this marriage.

    ETA: typo
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