@Blue & White you have a very good point. I guess I was just frustrated, especially since I am one of the few odd ones out who didn't go to high school with the bride. And I am the only one who is salaried and works 12-15 hour days at a time sometimes (when my project isn't delayed...). The majority of the others are in school still or work at part time retail jobs, and the MOH has a regular 9-5 hourly type job. Actually, that's what upsets my friend the most; that I am the busiest out of all of them, live the furthest away, and can still make time to at least text her and ask her how she is doing.
Anyways, thank you all. I needed to vent because I find the behaivor of the MOH toward the bride so disrespectful.
@hummingbird125 That's really weird. B'nai mitzvahs are on Saturdays. Why would you need to leave school early on a Friday? Weird!*Stuck in the box: I found out that the party is tomorrow, but her dad is driving her up tonight and she'll be sleeping over her friend's house.
@Hummingbird125 that sucks, and I am glad I am not friends with your friend, because she would probably kill me (mushroom allergy!). I feel your pain though, because I think half the time people don't realize how severely allergic I am. "You have an allergy, oh well you can just pick around them right?" NO. I. CAN'T.
Hopefully the dessert is awesome then!