I thought we were in the clear, invites went out and we managed to track down all RSVPs, we did our tables, we were good. That is until yesterday...
Background, we had a little drama in the beginning of the guest list stages regarding friends of our parents. We told our parents if they wanted to have friends there they would need to help us pay for them since we are paying for everything ourselves and had to cut some of our people out due to cost reasons. His parents said okay and that they understood and no need to invite their friends.
I have no idea what FMIL told her friend, but I get an email from her friend yesterday, a friend that I've met once in my life for about 3 hours. She asks me if it's too late to come to the wedding. Seriously, our wedding is in 45 days and why not email your friend or my fiance?. I talk to my fiance and we decide whatever it's just one person we can fit her in, better that than cause anymore drama, but he wanted to talk to his mom first to make sure she was aware (which she wasn't, but would really love for this friend to be there). I had busy day at work and didn't get back to her in time I guess, so I get an second email! Saying if it's a problem to just let her know and that will be that. Not only did she invite herself to our wedding last minute, she then got pushy that I didn't respond to her ASAP!
I'm trying to take the high road, but the bridezilla in me came out last night for the first time! My poor fiance had to listen to it too.
*end vent * thanks for listening!!