Hi Ladies,
It's been a while since I've started a thread, and I have a question for you all
While the wedding is still over a year out, FI and I were talking about our photographer's request and how to address it. I want to be etiquette-correct on how I go about it.
The photographer has requested that there be no "paparazzi" photos going on during the ceremony. Basically, she would like that people not step out into the aisle or in her way for photos during the 10-15 minute ceremony. I have no issues with them taking pictures like that (I mean, am I really going to notice this during the ceremony? Nope, don't care), but it is the only request she has made regarding taking photos.
So, question time. How do I address this with guests? I would like to trust that the ~70 people there would know not to do this. I'm thinking the only reason she specifically put this in the contract was because it has happened to her in the past. Do I do what I think I should and trust my guests? Do I consider an "unplugged" ceremony? Do I spread it via word of mouth or on the wedding website (no way I am putting that in the invitations)?
If it matters, we're aiming for no more than a 20 minute ceremony, and we're not having a photographer for the reception. I don't think any of this last statement matters, but I'll just throw it out there.
Thanks