Ok, I sent out my invites late March (?-roughly) for my May 10 wedding with an RSVP cutoff date of April 19. I have 233 people on my list and have roughly 85 responses- and most of those I have entered myself! WTH?? Most of the guests -from MY list- I can assume who is and isn't coming but would like to know for sure. My fi's guests, which is a small fraction of the total, I don't know about.
Is anyone else having these problems?? I am chalking it up to the fact that it is online RSVP only- no cards. There are very few people on our list that I would consider not to be tech savvy so there really is no excuse. What is the considered to be proper etiquette to prompt responses?? Facebook? e-mail? phone call? I need to know for catering numbers but I don't want to seem pushy.........
I guess I should consider myself lucky at this point that I'm not having the problem of people RSVPing for more than were invited!! 