Okay so my fiance and I decided to include children on our wedding invites. Mostly because we're incorporating a lot of kids in the ceremony and we both come from big families with lots of little ones. As I'm getting RSVPs back, people are writing in the parents names and including the kids in the total number but aren't writing their names.. I'm planning on doing assigned tables and am trying to decide - should I contact parents to get kids names or should I just write something like "& children" next to the parents names on the seating chart?