My fiancé fell in love with the second venue we looked at- a beautiful winery that includes an amazing photographer, wedding coordinator, food, DJ, and flowers. I love this because it cuts the stress of finding vendors and trying to figure out everything on our own and for the price we would really getting an amazing wedding day! We have a few days to put a deposit down but I'm getting cold feet about spending so much money on a wedding (well, mostly my parents money) and wondering if we should plan something smaller and use the money on a great honeymoon and a future. I keep going back and forth between having a dream wedding or being more realistic with the finances. I haven't been able to think of an in between (we don't know anyone with the space for a backyard wedding, and renting another place would be end up costing with everything added on) is it worth $15k for a beautiful day? Or what are some other options? Any advice would really be appreciated.