Cash Fund Question

plotjunkie

Jen4948 said:

lolo883 said:

Jen4948 said:

plotjunkie said:

...Does anyone read the rest of the thread?

Yes.  But if we don't choose to respond to the specific points you would like us to respond to but do respond to other points, I'm afraid you'll need to accept that with maturity rather than asking us what we read, because that is immature and not your business.  You don't get to control how people respond to your posts.

@Jen4948 I think she was referring to the fact that in a follow up comment she thanked us all for the answers and had decided against a cash fund... but people were still commenting as if she was still gunning for it. She made the right decision already.

"At least she made the right decision.  But it isn't appropriate to tell other people how to post."

It's not appropriate to call people immature to their faces either. And I wasn't telling people how to post, I was wondering why the heck I was still being talked to as if were still making this oh so horrendous decision. Point taken. I won't post in the etiquette board anymore. It almost seems some people on here are so hung up on preserving traditional wedding etiquette that they tend to neglect certain principles of etiquette in simply talking to people.

Jen4948

plotjunkie said:

Jen4948 said:

lolo883 said:

Jen4948 said:

plotjunkie said:

...Does anyone read the rest of the thread?

Yes.  But if we don't choose to respond to the specific points you would like us to respond to but do respond to other points, I'm afraid you'll need to accept that with maturity rather than asking us what we read, because that is immature and not your business.  You don't get to control how people respond to your posts.

@Jen4948 I think she was referring to the fact that in a follow up comment she thanked us all for the answers and had decided against a cash fund... but people were still commenting as if she was still gunning for it. She made the right decision already.

"At least she made the right decision.  But it isn't appropriate to tell other people how to post."

It's not appropriate to call people immature to their faces either. And I wasn't telling people how to post, I was wondering why the heck I was still being talked to as if were still making this oh so horrendous decision. Point taken. I won't post in the etiquette board anymore. It almost seems some people on here are so hung up on preserving traditional wedding etiquette that they tend to neglect certain principles of etiquette in simply talking to people.

Sorry, but you misunderstood. I was not calling you immature, I was calling a specific action immature.  And I think you made the right decision.  I'm sorry that you got spoken down to.  But if you're going to call people who believe in etiquette "hung up," that's not good.