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"I have a GREAT idea for my wedding!"

So I've been a long time lurker, but I had to jump in and share with someone who I know will be as appalled as me.  I had some friends in town for the weekend, and we were catching up over a few drinks.  They started asking me about the wedding planning is going, when all of a sudden, the girl (let's call her Amanda) jumped in with her "great" idea she came up with for when she gets married.  This amazing brainstorm?  To sell tickets to her wedding.

Yes.  Sell.  Tickets.  To.  Her.  Wedding.

My jaw obviously dropped and I couldn't spit out, "Are-you-fucking-kidding-me-that's-so-fucking-rude-who-ARE-you??" fast enough.  She sniffed and told me that I was basically doing the same thing (since a lot of our guests are having to fly in from out of town to attend).  I was grasping for words as she kept trying to justify it, saying that they would do this instead of having a registry, that she wouldn't make EVERYONE pay for a ticket--only friends, and gee, slothiegal, you would still come because we're friends, right??  I told her no, no I wouldn't, and ordered myself three more glasses of wine to deal with this tomfoolery.
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Re: "I have a GREAT idea for my wedding!"

  • Agree with PP- I would never buy tickets to a wedding! Sorry, but no one is special enough for me to do that. And good on you OP for trying to put the snowflake in her place.
  • Do you think your friend's event will be popular enough that some people might buy extra tickets and then sell them for more than face value? 

    If your friend is as popular as she thinks she is, StubHub might crash!
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  • It is so crazy to me that people think they are so important and special, that their own family would PAY to attending their wedding. Ha. What a joke.

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  • This is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard. She should prepare for a ton of declines.

    Buying a plane ticket to attend a wedding is not even a little bit the same.
  • Wow.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • My question is how do you determine what to charge? Do you charge less for closer family and friends and more for say, 3rd cousins? What about the bridal party? Do they have to pay even though they're spending money to be in it? Will it be more than the cost of their plate, etc. so they can profit from the wedding? Besides that it's rude, it's a logistical nightmare.
  • Will there be package deals available? Like admittance, 4 free drinks, and a photo op with the happy couple? Or are the drinks extra? Any chance it will be on Living Social or Groupon?
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  • I hope she gets a lot of angry "WTF" phone calls. Or that her FI talks her out of it...
  • And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    And if it's at the wedding, what if people forget cash? Will they take credit cards? Will there be an extra fee?
    will they kick people out if they can't pay the entrance fee?
  • I should point out that she's not even engaged yet.  Hopefully she'll stumble upon some sense before that ever happens.
    And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    Her plan is to gather money BEFORE anything is even planned or booked, so that they "know what kind of wedding they can afford".  I just....I don't....I CAN'T.  

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  • I should point out that she's not even engaged yet.  Hopefully she'll stumble upon some sense before that ever happens.
    And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    Her plan is to gather money BEFORE anything is even planned or booked, so that they "know what kind of wedding they can afford".  I just....I don't....I CAN'T.  

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    I have no words.
  • I should point out that she's not even engaged yet.  Hopefully she'll stumble upon some sense before that ever happens.
    And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    Her plan is to gather money BEFORE anything is even planned or booked, so that they "know what kind of wedding they can afford".  I just....I don't....I CAN'T.  

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    NOPE. NO MA'AM. This is some cuckoo bananas bullshit. There is no fucking way that shit's going down, or she's going to find that no 'ticketholders' felt it was necessary to attend.
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    I'm the fuck
    out.

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  • I should point out that she's not even engaged yet.  Hopefully she'll stumble upon some sense before that ever happens.
    And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    Her plan is to gather money BEFORE anything is even planned or booked, so that they "know what kind of wedding they can afford".  I just....I don't....I CAN'T.  

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    Well there you go now this is logic I can get behind.  I know I always just blindly give money to my friends for future events without having any details.

    Yep, something I total do.  Everyone does right?






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • This is all I got.

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    "I'm not a rude bitch.  I'm ten rude bitches in a large coat."

  • I should point out that she's not even engaged yet.  Hopefully she'll stumble upon some sense before that ever happens.
    And when will they pay? With the RSVP card? What if the check bounces?

    Her plan is to gather money BEFORE anything is even planned or booked, so that they "know what kind of wedding they can afford".  I just....I don't....I CAN'T.  

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    I gave the homeless guy on the corner a five today because his sign made me laugh. If she sent me something that made me laugh, I might give her a five (maybe), so....what kind of wedding can you throw for $5?
  • Now, I see this as an investment opportunity. If I purchase a ticket, do I then become some sort of stakeholder like a portion of her first born child goes to me or something?



    You want anything to do with this gene pool?!


    Hahaha, good point... how about rights to their house? :P Just trying to see what kind of profit I can get out of it here. :P

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  • Now, I see this as an investment opportunity. If I purchase a ticket, do I then become some sort of stakeholder like a portion of her first born child goes to me or something?



    You want anything to do with this gene pool?!


    Hahaha, good point... how about rights to their house? :P Just trying to see what kind of profit I can get out of it here. :P
    Alright, that seems more reasonable...just trying to save your sanity :P
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    The only wedding she'll be able to afford is the courthouse then, and that's only if she charges her imaginary FI admission because no one else is going to show. 
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  • Gee, I wonder why she's not engaged yet?!?!?
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