Dating Bullshit (Explicit...ish)

AzAnnie

I met Fi on EHarmony. No weirdness...thank GOD!!!!

Vivandiere8

I think part of the problem is that in this day and age there is a loud minority of women who do respond positively to dick pics from almost strangers (or pretend to), and men are encouraged by that fact and believe all woman secretly like it.

That's all I got. Could you imagine even the most forward of men in our grandparents days ever thinking that might possibly work on a woman? Something in our culture is telling them it's a safe bet...

ShellD13

Sugargirl1019 said:

ETA: But FI and I are abstaining 60 days from the wedding. We are at 51 days to go. TORTURE

I only just read our marriage devotional that made this suggestion.  We are going to do this too but we are only 14 days out....  Still torture but 2 weeks shouldn't kill either one of us (make us incredibly grouchy yes - kill no).  Good luck!

sarahufl

This thread made me LOL. Thanks, ladies.

I had a friend who got a dick pic once from a guy she had not even kissed yet. He thought it was a great way to segue into that. She thought it was a great way to never speak to him again.

No idea what goes through their heads.

JennyColada

Sending an unsolicited dick pic is the e-equivalent of catcalling a woman.

JennyColada

Vivandiere8 said:

Could you imagine even the most forward of men in our grandparents days ever thinking that might possibly work on a woman? Something in our culture is telling them it's a safe bet...

In their days, they just used a trench coat and stood on the sidewalk.

grumbledore

Not for nothing, but...

1)  Whipping out, unsolicited, is probably considered sexual assault.  

2)  What the fuck was this woman thinking going anywhere near this guy AFTER the unsolicited dick pics?

3)  I weep for humanity.

lizandmark2014

Just my two cents:
There are men out there like this. Some are just that immature. Others are that stupid and just want laid. All are sad/ pathetic.

Sugargirl1019

grumbledore said:

Not for nothing, but...

1)  Whipping out, unsolicited, is probably considered sexual assault.  

2)  What the fuck was this woman thinking going anywhere near this guy AFTER the unsolicited dick pics?

3)  I weep for humanity.

I should have claimed sexual assault a couple times while I was dating then. Keep those losers away from me.

flyingfoxes

I have a couple of girlfriends who love to get dick pictures.  But, in order, 1 of them swings with her boyfriend, and the other two are single and go on PoF to have random hookups, so IMO they are doing NOTHING to help the women out there who actually don't want to be easy or want dick pictures because they're making these men think that women are all like that.  

grumbledore

Sugargirl1019 said:

Not for nothing, but...

1)  Whipping out, unsolicited, is probably considered sexual assault.  

2)  What the fuck was this woman thinking going anywhere near this guy AFTER the unsolicited dick pics?

3)  I weep for humanity.

I should have claimed sexual assault a couple times while I was dating then. Keep those losers away from me.

In this here lovely patriarchy, I'm certain this would have gotten you nowhere.  But unsolicited exposure is almost certainly illegal.

beethery

flantastic said:

Knottie37444845 said:

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Are you kidding me? Where are all of these coming from? @KnotPorscha

Right? Wtf is this shit?