My wedding will not be til sept '15 but my boyfriend wants a bunch of the details done now really, he's dealing with the big things though. I'm extremely shy with a lot if anxiety (starting counselling next week again just for the wedding). But I feel like I have a ton of questions, some stupid too lol.
I haven't been to many weddings so I only know so much, but would it be weird not to do the type of things they do to get the bride and groom to kiss like paying money, sing a song, click glasses.? Or not to have a first dance, I also do not want a father/daughter dance and haven't decided if my father will walk with me down the aisle yet but that's just because I've only known him for the last ten years. Also, can the groom do all the talking for speeches? That is already worrying me, I'm over the idea of being watched but generally when I public speak, nothing comes out of my mouth, embarrassing
I'm sure it sounds like I shouldn't even be having a wedding lol a big part of me always wanted justice of the peace but this means a lot to my boyfriend, his family, my son and I'm it will when my daughter is a bit older, so I've decided to try to find the ways to make it as relaxed on me.