So I'm set to get married May of 2015. One of my bridesmaids called me today and told me that she is pregnant, and is due end of January/beginning of February. She then asked/told me that she needs to have the baby with her the day of the wedding because she is planning on breastfeeding and..as she puts it..."he/she will still be tiny".
My wedding is on a Friday, so that means all day she will have her husband/new baby following us wherever we go for hair/makeup/pictures/what have you, which will make the flow of things even more difficult that day. My question is, how do I tell her that it's NOT a good idea without sounding like a total bitch? I understand that the baby will have needs, but I also want to have fun with my bridesmaids, and I feel having an infant around all day will get really stressful really fast.
Any sort of advice/thoughts/words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!