My shower is in a few weeks and I have received gifts delivered to my house from the places I registered. I haven't been able to find a clear answer about whether or not I am supposed to open these gifts before the shower so that I can write a thank you note right away instead of waiting? If they are from someone who cannot attend I assume I write a note right away, but if it is from someone who is going to attend the shower I am a little confused. Do I bring the gift with me to the shower? The only way I can know who they are from is if I open them, so what is the right thing to do?