I have a friend who keeps asking me to see pictures of my dress. She came to my bachelorette party, etc so we are pretty good friends. I personally feel the dress is supposed to be a surprise to all guests the day of the wedding. I don't have pictures of my dress because I don't want my fiance to accidentally see it and it came from a boutique so it isn't on a website where I could say something like "go to Davids and find dress F-108" so she could see it without it being on me. I keep blowing it off telling her I don't have pictures but she keeps asking. One of my bridesmaids does have pictures from the day I picked it and the girl knows that. Is it me or isn't it rude to ask a bride to see pictures of her dress before the wedding? Or am I being rude by not wanting to show her?
Re: Dress details- to share or not??
Lol, well I've never felt the bolded, because really I never care that much about the suprise dress as a wedding guest. Most of my friends have seen my dress; hell, random people I work with have seen my dress.
But at the end of the day, it's your decision. Just say you wanted to keep it a surprise for everyone and that you aren't showing pictures. If she asks again, just say, "Girl, I already told you it's supposed to be a surprise! You'll see it eventually." You could always describe it to her to get her off your back.
If nothing else, be flattered that she's that excited to see your dress.
Just be honest and tell her you want it to be a suprise, nothnig wrong with that. I personally showed many people my dress...anyone that asked, other than my finance.
My personal feeling on it was, if my FI didn't get to see the dress, no one else did either. Only my parents, MOH (she was my only BM) and H's mom saw my dress before the wedding day. I've had friends show everyone pictures of their dress. It's really a personal preference. There's nothing wrong with telling someone you'd prefer not to share.