So - I sent a message to FH's aunt.
We are having a destination wedding, but she lives in the area of our destination.
I haven't heard if her & her husband were coming, so I sent her a message to ask, and I also asked if she got a chance to choose their entrees.
The entire rest of the wedding guest list has been confirmed, so I figured what the hell, I will shoot her a message and ask so I can go ahead and wrap things up.
(They got invites, addressed only to her & her husband) - FH and I didn't really want to invite her, but his mother insisted. FH is not close to her, and we want a super intimate wedding. Hence, her invite is already stretched.
She texts me back saying,
"yeah, and my 3 kids want to come. So put me & H down for pasta, and the rest for the *insert name of most expensive entree here*"
How do I respond?
Our venue is already at capacity - as I said, it is an intimate ceremony. The wedding is an entire weekend long. I don't even know how old these kids are. . . . that's how NOT close this family is. It's already disconcerting to FH and I that we were "made" to invite people we really didn't want to.
We wanted this super low key. NO kids except mine either, and they aren't really "kid" kids, they are just newly teenagers.
Now I am super uncomfortable & I don't know how to respond to this woman.