I have talked to a few people about this but I haven't had very many ideas given to me. My parents celebrated their 25 year anniversary this year, and so did my fiance's parents. I have had many people tell me that we need to do something during the ceremony or at the reception to make this known. I have no idea what to do for them though.
Any ideas?
Re: Need ideas!
I'm the fuck out.
We had two VIP guest couples at our wedding who actually shared our wedding date. We simply gave their first dance songs to the DJ and said that they were must plays. He played them during the evening and both couples were THRILLED when they heard them come on.
You could do that for your parents.
I'm the fuck out.
Completely agree!
I would say that if you and your FI want to include something in the ceremony, the officiant could casually mention it along with the meaning of marriage (or whatever the opening talk is about). It could also be worked into a toast. I know my parents don't like the spotlight, but if I were in that situation and wanted to include it, I (or FI) would probably give a combined toast to our parents who journey together both started 25 years ago, molded us into who we are, etc., etc. I definitely wouldn't say anything about give a round of applause, or have the parents stand up for us to recognize. They also wouldn't want to have a special spotlight dance, but again that's my parents!