I love my mom dearly. Since I have moved out and lived independently we have become really close. We have a mother-daughter and also a friendship relationship. I could not imagine getting ready and going through the morning and afternoon of my wedding day without her.
We are getting married an hour+ away from where my parents live. My mom told me from the beginning that she was going to spend the night before the wedding at the hotel. She has been involved in every detail of the planning. I told her before that I have been trying to find a good hair stylist and makeup artist to come to the hotel to do everyone and she seemed really interested. My sister told me the other day that my mother took her aside and told her that she would like to drive back home (with my sister who is a bridesmaid) and get their hair done (by the same stylist) and come back. My mom has never mentioned this to me. I understand people are really committed to their stylist - even though I am not that type. However, I am thinking that say they make great time there and back that is 2 hours and then an hour each for their hair. I just pictured my day getting ready with my mom and all my bridesmaids. I did ask her about it and she said she only goes to this stylist so I understand just bummed that I found out from my sister and feel like my mom was hiding it and my mom won't be there when I get ready.