My fiancé and I are toying with the idea of having a pot luck wedding reception for a variety of reasons. (1) We live out in the country (minimum an hour away from a major city) and to hire a caterer to come to our house would cost a fortune and (2) we do not want to spend a ton of money on a wedding. (3) We want to share our day with everyone we know and make it more like a big backyard party.
For those of you who've done pot luck receptions, what would you suggest and what would you have done differently? Would it be okay to "suggest" to people what to bring so that we don't end up with 100 potato salads?
Also, we plan on supplying the alcohol beverages. Is there any law against this? We will not be charging for the drinks, so I don't think we'll need a liquor licence...right? We will strongly encourage smart drinking and designated drivers, because public transportation is not an option.
TIA