My wedding is pretty far away - September 2015 - and I feel like I've got a lot of the big stuff done. We have a venue, I have a dress, we have a DJ, and we are booking our photographer next weekend. People keep telling me - it flies by and a couple months before the wedding you're going to have SO much to do & be SO stressed out (umm, thanks for giving me something to look forward to guys!)
My question is - is this true? What exactly is all this stuff that is going to make me crazy the month or so before the wedding? Maybe if you tell me now I can prepare myself and avoid having an anxiety-ridden meltdown next year. FYI - I already know I have to move 2 months before my wedding which is stressful enough in itself.
Re: Month of Wedding Stress
I'm one of those brides that wasn't all that stressed during the prep. Yeah, a few things came up here & there, but it wasn't as horrific as everyone makes it sound. But then again, I had a venue that does weddings a LOT and knew their stuff (and included almost everything).
Honestly, I had almost no DIY stuff, so it was pretty non stressful.
One of the worst times for me was around 3 weeks out. We were trying to finalize our numbers so that we could give final numbers for catering, chairs, table assignments, seating plan, and flowers/centerpieces. None of that could be decided until everyone RSVPd (and we had some stragglers and folks change their minds at the last minute). Gah.
Although it was a stressful time, I kept a comprehensive to do list of every last thing I needed to do. It REALLY helped with the "omg I think I'm forgetting something important" thing.