My friend is getting married in October and I received the invitation a week ago. Outer envelope was addressed to me and the inner envelope did not have anything written on it. I assumed (my mistake!) that my boyfriend, who lives with me, was invited and RSVPed with the two of us. A few days later I get a call from the bride's mother saying that only guests who are married or engaged can bring significant others because of budgetary restrictions. I was extremely embarrassed and apologized for my mistake since it was truly my fault for just assuming.
Fast forward a few days.. mutual friends of ours have told us that their boyfriends were invited to the wedding and they're bringing them. Maybe it was immature of me, but that really pissed me off. The mother specifically told me only married or engaged couples were allowed, so I don't know why my relationship is viewed as less serious than others.
My dilemma: Should I still attend solo or decline?
"Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are."