I really just need to know the etiquette/rules of what should be worn by the men in an evening, semi-formal wedding. I've tried googling this information, and I can't really seem to find anything hard-fast.
FI and I both like the look of charcoal gray over black. Is this appropriate if our ceremony starts at 5:00pm? The guy in Jos. A Bank said anything after 5:00 was usually black and it would be weird to use gray. Is this true?
Also, when it comes to suits vs. tuxes, is there a rule on this? I really prefer the look of suits (and the price), but I don't want people side-eying us because the wedding's at night.
Please help me. Ultimately I'm letting FI (and the budgets) decide what we go with, but he and I are both desperate to figure out what the deal is on this stuff.
Re: So confused on Groom/Groomsmen attire
A suit is appropriate attire at ANY wedding. Every man should have one good dark two piece suit. Vests are an accessory, and are optional. The satin vests are for tuxedos only. Dress shirts are white. Tuxedos are only proper at weddings after 6:00 PM. Until the 1960's, they were not considered to be formal enough for a wedding.
A tuxedo has satin jacket lapels and a satin strip down the pants. No belt is worn, but suspenders. A proper tuxedo is BLACK!
FI was thinking of gifting his GM their ties as well, however their ties will be Sangria to match the BM dresses....so probably not LOL.
We are going to look at formalwear soon and FI likes dark gray suits. I don't disagree, so I imagine that is what we will probably go with. The bridesmaids are wearing navy so black would be weird with that. Our wedding is at 6:30 and semiformal.
We will look at lots of options I'm sure, so maybe we will choose something different... not sure. But this has been helpful to read as I too have been wondering if it's weird to let him and his guys wear gray suits at our wedding. Thanks!