My dad is not a very loving guy. He was when I was little, he is with my son and as me and my siblings have become adults, it seems like he could care less about showing any affection or emotion. But he's a firefighter and I've always assumed that showing NO emotion was his way of dealing with "hard things". We have had major ups and downs but have been getting along very well the past few years.
He's been acting strange recently.
First, he was supposed to get measured for a tux in March. It's now August and less than 2 months to the wedding and he STILL has not done it. I've begged him literally every week for the last 3 months to do it. He says he will and then doesn't.
I mentioned that we needed to find a song for our father/daughter dance. He rolled his eyes and grunted. He said he doesn't want to have the dance.
Since he loves my FI, he suggested that they go to a casino/resort a couple hours away for FI's bachelor party. It was my dad's idea for FI, himself and the groomsman to spend a night there. My dad even offered up two comp'd rooms he has. Best man heard about it and called my dad to figure our plans and my dad was down right rude to him. He acted like he had no idea what he was talking about and acted like he had no interest in going. Best man called my FI and said, that he was going to move on and plan something else because of how my dad was.
It's two months away and I am extremely stressed out. With my dad being such a huge part of the wedding it's really getting to me that he has completely tuned out and is not participating, especially because he was excited at first.
Any ideas on how to deal with this?