I put my invitations in the mail (at the post office) at 1pm two days ago. All the local guests received them yesterday, and I have had some email me, facebook message me and stop by my office to give me their "no" response and explain why they can't make it. I think that's sweet. Waste of postage, but sweet. LOL
One lady I used to work with brought me a gift because she will not be able to attend the wedding. So.... do I open it now and send thank you note, or wait til the wedding?