What is the etiquette on gifting for a destination vs an out of town wedding. I am going to a destination wedding in Mexico next month and I'm not sure if a gift is required on top of my travel expenses. Typically the invite says "your presence is your present" for a "destination wedding" but this invite didn't say anything about it. Also, I am traveling out of state to a wedding where the groom and bride live and I feel that a gift is an obvious gesture in this case. What is the difference and what is the etiquette? Help!