I'm working through a planning worksheet with my DJ. One of the questions is who will be giving planned toasts, and how to handle unplanned toasts, etc.
1) We haven't heard anyone SAY they want to give a toast, but I guess we assume the best (wo)man will want to give one. I'm unsure who else may want to. How do we gently inquire which of our wedding party/family are planning to give a toast, without it sounding like we are trying to solicit them?
2) I don't think it will be a problem, but I don't want people to start jumping in with add-on toasts while people have to sit there and listen to a bunch of impromptu speeches. I'd like to tell my DJ not to allow unplanned toasts. Is there a tactful way to do this?
And just in general, is there anything I seem to be forgetting / not taking into consideration?